It’s easier to build “strong children” than to repair broken men.
The academic process rigorously challenges students to become better and better … students. They learn how to write the perfect essay; obey a teacher’s instructions; complete homework on time; sit in rows; and any number of other school-specific tasks.
While becoming a better student ensures that they are more likely to learn, remember, and apply their academic skills in a variety of situations, there’s something more I want for my students: To be strong people.
Becoming a strong student has its perks, but many qualities of a good student are restricted to the academic environment. If an individual becomes a strong student, there’s no guarantee that they’ll demonstrate the qualities of a strong person beyond the strict academic behaviors. So while much of my classroom manage emphasizes those academic behaviors, I also intently focus on helping my students to become much more.
Strong Student vs. Strong Person
Here’s a rough breakdown of the differences between being simply a strong student, and how that looks in the life of someone becoming a strong person:
Strong Student |
Strong Person |
Good at academics |
Good at applying academics to life |
Concerned about getting good grades |
Concerned about developing proficiency in each skill set |
Always knows what they’re working on |
Always knows what they’re working toward |
Expresses only agreeable opinions |
Respectfully expresses what’s truly on her heart and mind |
Learns things for the test |
Learns things to learn things |
Focuses on English, science, math, history, etc. |
Focuses on responsibility, motivation, kindness, passion, etc. |
Is in competition with other classmates for grades, resources, and attention |
Is in concord with classmates to share information, resources, and attention |
Asks questions to conform to teacher’s expectations |
Asks questions to expand his learning and curiosity |
Believes in her ability to do good schoolwork |
Believes in her ability to overcome obstacles |
Does the minimum to get the desired grade |
Does the maximum to get the desired learning |
Is deterred by failure |
Is inspired by failure |